this stuff is the real deal. It’s super stringy but extremely slippery. Best lube yet
My wife and I have looked, FOR YEARS, for a solid "his+hers" set up like this. And by "looked" I mean we've spent hundreds of dollars trying to find something that's easy, comfortable and we both thoroughly enjoy. This is orders of magnitude better than anything we've previously found. It IS easy, stays in place for her, is fantastic for me. Another great feature is the "three vibration zones". My wife's clitoris is too sensitive for most devices being directly applied and vibrating. It's just too much. What's great about this product is I can activate the tip vibration for me, and it's just enough to be great for her...she achieves both clitoral and vaginal orgasms with this set up. Where once anal play was an onerous and honestly not that much fun endeavor, now my wife routinely asks foe "The Rig." Thanks SOM for the great product!
Perfectly adjustable. It has a great look and comfortable feel to it. I really enjoy that it also works for double sided strap-on and regular dildos!
Works great, Looks even better. She is 5'8" about 139 pounds, medium is a little tight but works just fine.
She really likes it
That’s great to hear. I’m really glad she likes it. Thanks for sharing the feedback :)
Made me come SO many times wearing it solo. I can’t believe it has so low stars here, it deserves much higher! I really liked that it wasn’t too big or heavy, fit perfectly, and stayed in place with no twisting. The vibration is very strong even on the lowest setting. Can’t wait to used it on my girlfriend. ;)
Thanks so much for taking the time to share this. We’re really happy to hear it worked so well for you and that the fit, comfort, and stability stood out. Your feedback means a lot to us. We agree, it deserves more love, and feedback like yours really helps. Hope you and your girlfriend enjoy it just as much together.
Awesome product! Fit like a glove she said :)
Thank you so much for the love. We’re thrilled to hear the fit felt spot on and that she was comfortable wearing it. Really appreciate you taking the time to share this 😊
Just another of the amazing products offered here. Bought these in combo with some of the other "hardware" and the combo works wonderfully, is comfortable and, of course, fun.
Thank you so much for this lovely feedback. We’re really happy to hear the Idole harness works so well with your setup and that the combo feels comfortable and fun to use. Designing something that plays nicely with other gear while staying easy and enjoyable was a big goal for us, so this means a lot. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Hole was to small couldn’t fit the dildo in wasted buy
Thanks for sharing your experience. We’re really sorry to hear the Heroine harness didn’t work out for you. Fit can vary depending on the dildo size, and we understand how frustrating that can be. Please reach out to our support team with the model you tried, we’ll be happy to help you find a compatible option or a solution so this doesn’t feel like a wasted purchase.
Great, dildo, I really love the feel.
I wish there was one this diameter but longer, it's not a deal breaker by any means.
The base vacuums very hard to almost all surfaces for solo play
Thank you so much for your feedback. We’re really glad you’re loving the feel and build quality.
It’s great to hear the suction base is working so well for solo play too. And thank you for the note about wanting the same diameter in a longer size, that’s very helpful, and we’ll definitely share it with our product team.
I just took it for a test drive. It hit the spot. Can’t wait for my lady to strap in an give me a ride.
Thank you for sharing this with us. We’re really happy to hear it hit the spot on your first try.
We hope you and your partner have an amazing time exploring together, and if you ever want tips or have questions, we’re here for you.
this thing is as close as the real thing, if it would squirt it would be the only improvement you want 1 trust me
Thank you for the amazing feedback. We’re really glad the realism and feel impressed you that much. That’s exactly what we aim for.
Hi! My wife and I have had our toy for multiple years now (maybe 4?) at the time I had some issue with the toy (I think the arm was too squeaky?) and it was replaced promptly by y'all. I cannot recommend these enough! Just good to know that the receiver's side is very hard/stiff, making some positions a little trickier so the toy doesn't fall out of either partner's body. I would absolutely loooove if y'all made a "realistic" and skin tone version of this toy. Some bend on the shaft end would be amazing too! I'd take one that didn't have a third motor in that end if bendiness was possible!
Thank you so much for taking the time to share this. It really means a lot. We’re glad the replacement years ago was smooth, and even happier that the toy has stayed a favorite for you both.
We also really appreciate the practical note about the receiver side being quite firm and how that can affect certain positions. That kind of detail is genuinely helpful.
And your ideas for a more realistic, skin-tone version with a bit of bend on the shaft are fantastic. We’ll absolutely pass this feedback to our product team. It’s exactly the sort of upgrade many couples would love.
Thanks again for your trust and your thoughtful suggestions.
I would buy this if there wasn't the huge strap-on-me text on it. It's ugly and out of place during sex.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. We understand your point about the logo. Some people enjoy the branded detail, while others prefer something more subtle. Your feedback genuinely helps us refine our designs. Feel free to take a look at our new harness collection on the site. We hope the updated styles will suit you better.
It's taken a while for my wife to warm to my desire for pegging. Having this has made a major difference in her enjoyment, and her ability to orgasm while doing it improves the experience immensely for both of us.
We’re so glad to hear that your experience together has been so positive! It’s wonderful that this helped make things more enjoyable and fulfilling for both of you. Thank you for sharing such a personal and thoughtful review. It really means a lot to us.
Works great!
Thank you for your feedback :)
We've had our for almost two years. My husband loves it. We've both gotten to finish from it. The silicone is silky and the vibrations are strong. It is not for a beginner, but if your willing to take the time to warm up and learn you'll have a great time. Definitely need some sort of harness. I have a thong that I cut a small hole in that ties at the sides that works pretty well.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
We’re thrilled to hear that you and your husband are still enjoying your toy after two years, that’s exactly the kind of lasting pleasure we love to hear about!
Great tip about using a thong-style harness. For even more comfort and versatility, you can also explore our range of harnesses available on our website.
Wishing you both many more fun and satisfying moments together.
The size m was really nice and soft, loved the feel and fit of the insertable end, the dildo end however was very long and pointy and didn’t have enough girth for my partner. So we bought the xl that has just the right girth for us but unfortunately turned out to be made of a completely different kind of silicone. The larger size is rigid and stiff, not soft and comfy at all. So disappointing
Hello,
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience. We really appreciate your detailed feedback. We’re sorry to hear that the XL didn’t feel quite the same as your previous strap-on. The material and firmness can indeed vary slightly between older and newer versions, as our latest models are designed to be bendable and hold their shape.
To make sure we fully understand what happened and help you find the right fit, could you please reach out to our customer service team? They’ll be happy to review your previous and recent orders with you and confirm whether both products are from the same version.
You can contact us directly at contact@strap-on-me.com.
Warm regards,
Team Strap on Me
